Why a MIB-Man In Black? Am I a well-dressed alien enforcement agent? A dark soulful country singer? No, but I have been told I look good in black clothing–be it a black dress shirt, turtleneck, tuxedo or everyday black suit. What is it about the “color” black?
The other day I wore a black button-down shirt and before I got out of the parking lot at the office where I work, I slid on a pair of dark sunglasses, then took a photo of myself. Interestingly enough after posting this photo, I received very positive and definitive reactions. Needless to say, I felt great and confident, but most of all, I was reminded that I can choose my attitude.
We often think of black as a color of mystique, darkness, depression, evilness and sin, but it’s also a color of definition and boldness–and that is the picture I want to present.
Just as documents are printed with black ink, black is also used in photo-editing to make the photo look better and less washed-out. This can be done several ways, but the black brings out clarity and definition.
Over the past year, I have been told I have done very well considering the circumstances in my life (separation, business downturn, and debt issues). When faced with a decision of how to react to life’s changes, I could do one of two things: (1) Cower in fear and depression while retreating from everyone or, (2) Take the course of becoming more sociable, organized, and confrontational of my fears, as well as the challenges before me. I have chosen to take the latter path, and in doing so have been thinking about what it means for me to be a real “Man in Black”. This would be a man who seeks to be bold and good-looking (as far as my presentation and self-pride), who faces fear squarely, and finally who lives simply and debt-free, or “in the black“.
Any man can be a MIB if you:
(1) Clearly Define who you are. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Resist the temptation to be a “jack-of-all-trades, but master of none”. Clients want to know you are a specialist in your work. (2) Be Bold – Stand up for what you believe in. Don’t let others run over you , and don’t be quick to accept rejection. You can always say, “Next…”
(3) Look Good- Dress sharp and with confidence. Even if your clothes change you can always wear a bold cloak of confidence. Nobody is a perfect specimen and we can only work with what God has given us.
(4) Confront fears – Afraid to make that phone call? Or give blood? Speak in public? Be a warrior and face those battles, whatever they may be with honor!
(5) Live Simply – How much stuff do you need? Do you have books, movies, etc. that you don’t even use? Sell or give it away to those who really need it. Doing these first five items will help you reach your goal for number six:
(6) Become Debt Free – Debt is literally being a slave to another entity because they are exercising power over you. Be a real man and conquer the debt monster one day at a time. Note: This article also can be applied to all WIB’s (Women-In-Black).
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